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Set goals that matter

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I once heard the following quote (I’m not sure of the source)

 It’s better to fail at something important, than succeed at something unimportant.

When I first heard this quote it stopped me in my tracks.  Imagine spending your life pursuing a goal only to realize that in the end it was not important.  Here are some of my ideas about following your dreams and goals. 

1.  Follow YOUR dreams and goals
It’s easy to fall in love with dreams that are marketed to us.  Who doesn’t want to drive a BMW through tight turns, live in a McMansion, or stay in a posh hotel?  When you list your dreams and goals, ask yourself what your motivation is?  For example, if you do desire a nice car is it to enjoy the car, for the sense of achievement, or is it to impress others? 

2.  Be persistent when pursuing your dreams and goals.
I’ve heard it said that obstacles aren’t put in your way to stop you, but to show how bad you want a dream.  Persistence is the most important factor when achieving your desired end result.   

3.  You decide when to stop pursuing a goal
I don’t subscribe that you need to always

 

Living Your Best Life

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One book that I found really valuable for my personal development was, Living your best Life, by Laura Fortgang.  She challenged me to declutter my life, explore my passions, and pursue my lucrative purpose. 

Laura provides a checklist to determine the number of distractions that you have in your life.  I was surprised to learn that I was leading a life with many distractions.  Examples of distractions that I was carrying were consumption of too much coffee, strained relationships from unresolved conflict, and desire to use my natural abilities more in my work.  On my own I would not identify these distractions as barriers to living a full life.  As I addressed these challenges I felt more empowered in my life. 

A real fun part of the book for me was exploring my passions.  For this exercise you identify fullfilling accompishments and experiences.  She challenges you to identify the kind of activities where you lose track of time and are filled with enthusiasm.  This activity leads to the next task of finding your lucrative purpose.   

Your lucrative purpose is something that you are passionate about and it benefits others.  I struggled determining my lucrative purpose on my own.  From my viewpoint I thought my strength was seeing the positive view in every situation.  I learned a lot by asking my friends what they valued about me.   An overall consensus from friends was that they used me as safe and trustworthy sounding board.   

I’ve only touched a few topics in the book.  Here are 3 goals that I set after reading this book:

1. Provide practical advice and motivate people to improve their personal finances so that they can follow their dreams and achieve their goals.  This book challenged me to purse my passion to write a personal finance book.  Subsequently I have started this blog. 

2. Work with my wife to help our daughter blossom into her purpose. For example, help expose her to different activities and hobbies and encourage her.

3. Engage in conversations such that I am always building up other people. What can I say to encourage them?  What can I do to acknowledge their courage and contributions?

In closing I recommend that you take on the challenge to live your best life!  Follow your dreams, Achieve your goals!    

Are you living your best life?  What are you passionate about?  What is your lucrative purpose? 

This article was featured in the Carnival of Improving Life

Take the financial fitness test

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How do you feel overall about your personal finances?  Are you in shape to hike up Mt Retirement? Could you survive in the financial wilderness if you had a setback such as a job loss?  I have created a financial fitness survey to help you assess different areas of your personal finance.  Please take a minute and complete the financial fitness survey on the next page.  The purpose of this survey helps you identify areas both where you are doing well and areas of improvement for your personal finance life. This survey should take less than 5 minutes to complete.

A complimentary PDF version of this test post at book resources 

  1 = Noor Poor     2     3 = Fair or sometimes     4    5 = Yesor excellent
1.  Honest with myself about problems and opportunities with respect to my personal finances.  Open and honest communication with my spouse (if applicable)   1  2  3  4  5
2.  Have written short and long term personal financegoals.  Regularly identify the next action step for eachgoal.  Celebrate completion of goals.   1  2  3  4  5
3.  Organization system for financial paperwork and incoming bills.   1  2  3  4  5
4.  Consult with trusted friends to help you achievesuccess and avoid poor financial decisions.  Only purchase investments that you understand and areappropriate for you.  Focus on building wealth slowlyversus getting rich quick.  1  2  3  4  5
5.  Verify all transactions for errors.  1  2  3  4  5
6.  Maintain a balanced checkbook.  1  2  3  4  5
7.  Live within your means.  Know how much it takes tolive each month (living expense).  Spend less thanyou make every month.  1  2  3  4  5
8.  Set monthly budget for variable spending categoriessuch as food and entertainment.  1  2  3  4  5
9.  Regulary review fixed spending to evaluate reducinghousehold expenses.  1  2  3  4  5
10.  Have an established process to prevent impulsepurchases (sleep on it, 30 day waiting period, etc)  1  2  3  4  5
11.  Research large purchases to insure best value andconfidence in the decision.   1  2  3  4  5
12.  Set aside money regulary for annual expenses such as insurance, vacation, and Christmas.  1  2  3  4  5
13.  Save up for large purchases instead of using credit(autos, furniture, etc)  1  2  3  4  5
14.  Have an emergency fund equal to one month of living expense.   1  2  3  5
15.  Have eliminated or plan to eliminate consumerdebt. 1  2  3  4  5
16.  Maintain 3 to 6 months of living expense in a rainyday fund.  Invest the rainy day fund in a secureinvestment such as a money market or certificates ofdeposits (CDs)  1  2  3  4  5
17.  Know how much I need to save for a secure retirement.  1  2  3  4  5
18.  Save enough each month to achieve a secureretirement for your target retirement date.  1  2  3  4  5
19.  Review and adjust investment portfolios annually toachieve desire asset allocation and diversification.  1  2  3  4  5
20.  Evaluate and minimize investment expenses.  For example employ index funds to achieve market performance.  1  2  3  4  5
21.  Have proper levels of insurance (life, medical, etc)  1  2  3  4  5
22.  Review insurance policies for both value andcompetitiveness.  Increase insurance deductables tothe highest level that you can afford.  1  2  3  4  5
23.  Save appropriately for your children’s college education.  1  2  3  4  5
24.  Have a will to direct your wishes regarding your children and assets.   1  2  3  4  5
25.  Purposely give in alignment to your values.  1  2  3  4  5

How did you do on the survey? The purpose of the survey is to show you areas where you’re doing well and areas where you can improve. If you got good scores (4 or 5) on most of the questions then you are in good shape - congratulations!  If you got low scores (1, 2 or 3) on the majority of the questions, don’t feel despair. Through focus and continuous improvement you will become financially fit. As you become more financially fit, you will experience less stress and be able to pursue your passions and live your purpose.

Follow your dreams, Achieve your goals!

Create a financial plan

If you don’t know where you are going, you’ll end up somewhere else.
-Yogi Berra

Once when hiking in a wilderness area, a tired and weary hiker approached me and asked directions to the trailhead. I pulled out my hike book and showed him the trail map. Quickly he identified the route back to his car. He thanked me, and with new energy he hiked off. I felt a great sense of satisfaction helping the hiker get back on course. I then thought, “How could he have gotten lost, there are only two turns that he had to make?” Later that day as I headed back toward the trailhead it became evident how the hiker missed a key turn. The path to the trailhead was so faint and the main trail was so dominant, you would have guessed it was a game trail. My thought at that point was, “Who would walk in the wilderness without a map?”

Do you have a financial plan? A clear map to help navigate you to retirement security and financial independance? I have created the following financial steps to to guide you through the finanical wilderness.

A complimentary PDF version of this test is posted at book resources 

1. Define your goals
Write down your dreams. Identify, clarify, and prioritize your goals. For each goal track the next actoin step that you can complete. Keep your goals visible and review your goals weekly.

2. Live within your means
Pay as you go! Spend less than you make every month. Maintain a balanced checkbook, put your credit cards on sabbatical, eliminate impulse purchases, save up for large purchases, detail your monthly cash flow, and reduce fixed and variable expenses. Achieving your goals is the motivation to reduce your spending.

3. Create and emergency fund
Create an emergency fund that is one-quarter of your montly living expenses, then gradually increase to a full month of living expenses. Only use the money for true emergencies such as medical expenses and car repairs.

4. Eliminate high interest debt
Eliminate all credit card and consumer (i.e. auto loans, student loans, etc) with greater than or equal to 6% interest. Attack outstanding loans with the highest interest rates and lowest remaining balances first.

5. Contribute 10% to retirement savings
Save 10% of your salary for retirement. Use automatic deductions and payments to contribute to your 401k/403b or a Roth IRA. If you can’t immediately save 10% of your income then take advantage of any matching available from your employer in your retirement plan. Increase your contributions both when you achieve pay increases and when you eliminate debt. Commit to save for the long haul. When changing jobs, roll your retirement plan to an IRA - avoid the temptation to cash out the money.

6. Pay off credit card and consumer debt
Attack and prepay all debt greater than 4% interest. Debts lower than 4% interest rates can be paid on the regular schedule. Do not incur any new consumber debt (i.e. auto loans, home equity lines of credit, etc). If you use credit cards then pay off the balance every month.

7. Fully fund your rainy day fund
Be prepared for the loss of a job or a serious medical event. Rainy day reserves help make lifes difficult transitions manageable. If you’re under 30 years old, save 3 months worth of living expenses. If you are between 30 to 40 then save 6 months of living expense. Above 40, accumulate 12 months of living expense.

8. Maximize retirement savings contributions
Fully contribute to your 401k/403B plans and Roth/traditional IRAs. Continue increasing your contributions until you reach 15% of your income. Either invest in index funds to keep expenses low and achieve market performance or invest in no-load mutual funds that outperform index funds.

9. Continuously build equity and then pay off your mortgage
Purchase a home with 30% down and fixed 15 or 30 year morgage. Do not take out home equity line loans. Pay off your mortgage to reduce your living expenses and achieve peace of mind.

10. Achieve retirement security / financial independence
Financial independence is the point at which your assets provide the necessary income to cover your expenses. You are now in the position to pursue your passions full time. You also can increase your giving.

Follow your dreams, Achieve your goals

How is your journey going?  What step number are you on?

Write down your goals

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If you don’t know where you are going,
you’ll end up somewhere else.
- Yogi Berra

I challenge you to write down your dreams, your short term goals, your medium term goals, and your long term goals. It’s well known that writing down your goals will dramatically improve your success in achieving results. We go through life 3 times.  Once we imagine an experience, next we live the experience, and then we remember the experience.  Writing down your goals helps you visualize the desired end result.   and to essentially program yourself for the desired end state.

To make a great dream come true,
you must first have a great dream.
- Dr Hans Selye

Write down your dreams and goals in the manner that you find most effective. Write them on paper, in your journal, or put them in your computer.  For your convencience I have provided a Goal Setting Template PDF at book resources .

Now that you have written down your goals, I recommend that you post your goals in a visible location where you will see them everyday.  Keeping your goals visible will increase your effectiveness in achieving your goals.  This may be on your closet door, on a mirror, or on the refridgerator. To increase your effectiveness in achieving your goals, add pictures to your goal sheet.  For example, if one of your goals is to travel on vacation to Paris, hang a photo of the Eifel tower.

Follow your dreams, achieve your goals!